I know some of you are against making resolutions for the New Year, but I have so many things that need to be done...so I kind of have to make this list every year so I can stay on track and hold myself accountable for things I don't do:
So, here they are, in no particular order:
1. STOP PROCRASTINATING!!!: Make a list of things to be done each day and for the week and work through them without getting side tracked. Let the "angel on my shoulder" be in control for a change, not the "lil' devil."
2. Excersize: I am a big fat cow...the only reason I got this way is because I am lazy and I don't like to do anything that requires discipline or hard work...I used to be hot and skinny...and I know I can lose the weight if I just make is a habit to work out everyday. Do it, don't think about it!!!
3. Stop spending money: There is no reason to spend money when you don't have any...your bills need paying, you need money for a house one day. Say no to yourself, you already have so much more than other peaople, so why keep consuming...just stop. It will be hard at first, but you can do it....
4. Be Accountable: (this goes with #1) Do what you say you are going to do, don't put it off or keep people waiting. Have some backbone! What do you deserve? If you don't work hard for it, should you have it? Work hard and do what needs to be done and punish yourself severly if it isn't.
5. Be a better wife and Dog Mom: Keep your house clean and organized, cook healthy meals, support and nuture your husband...help him to be more accountable...don't let John enable you and don't enable him. Be tough, yet loving...and schedule some romantic time so it doesn't get lost when things are tough. Take your dog to the park, it's good for both of you!!! Play with her at least once a day...she is getting fat like her lazy mom!!!
6. Be a better friend and a better family member: Call your mother, call your in-laws, call your aunts and cousins...reach out to long distance friends...don't be afraid to call people on the phone...don't turn into a hermit like your dad did...connect with people, make relationships and work at keeping them...if you are ashamed of certain things, work at fixing them, but don't hide from the world because you can...put yourself out there. Feel afraid...it's good for you!!! Change isn't easy, but it's worth it in the end.
7. Be a CEO: You want to have a successful business? Well, that means a lot of work: blood, sweat and tears...so much can be accomplished in 15hrs...what are you doing with that time?? You have 3 things to focus on in order to make your dreams a reality...they are all within your ability to do, but you have to do them in order for them to exist. Thinking and wishing and dreaming will never get you anywhere if you aren't "DOING!" Remember what annoys you most about certain people: All Talk-No Action??? Don't be that person!!!!!
8. Take Risks: The worst that someone can say is no... and no isn't a big deal. Competition is good for you, it will hold you accountable. Submit your cards for publication!!!
9. Communicate: With your team, your husband, your creditors, your family, your friends. People cannot read minds, so don't treat them like they should already know what you are thinking.
10. Grow and Learn: 2005 was a great year for you to step out of the box and learn a whole lot of new stuff....but it will grow stagnent if you don't use it...Get back to what works and keep doing it...take more pictures...use old pictures...scrap at least 3 times a week if not more, stamp at least 3 times a week if not more...Devote 2 hours everyday to adding new tools to your belt...push the envelope...lead by example...prove yourself.
The main goal for 2006 is WORK BEFORE REWARD....if I can just conquer that every day, I will find it so easy to accomplish my goals...JUST DO IT...it will be worth it this time next year...and you will have so much more to show for it. Think about being debt-free, with a savings, a viable business, a house!, travel, getting your hair done on a regular basis! Make it happen!!! Earn the things you want in life...I challenge you Jennifer....to make it happen by this time next year!!! You know it isn't hard...right now there is nothing getting in the way!!! You are the only one standing between a good life and a difficult one....your "first reaction" is not your best reaction...count to ten, ask yourself..."Will this make my life better this time next year? Will I be working on one of my resolutions by doing this?" If the answer is no, then let it go.
LOVE YOURSELF!!! If not for who you are now, then love who you are going to be.
There can only be what is...make "it" a reality by doing it...Bodies in motion, stay in motion: Bodies at rest, stay at rest....Be In Motion!!!